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November 27, 2018

Reality of “On a Budget”

On a Budget

“On a Budget” Decor

DIY Decor

Have you ever watched a video on YouTube where the video is about how to be frugal and save money “on a budget?”  You watch them take a dollar store item, disassemble it, and then create something similar to what they took apart using more items that they had to purchase.  Sometimes it looks nicer than what it was, but many times, it would have been better to not purchase the initial item in the first place or leave it alone. 

I have seen good pictures being repainted and then made into shelves, and these are not sturdy to hold much of anything.  I would rather go to Home Depot, pay for a large piece of wood (sometimes you can find some spare pieces for real cheap), use the same paint to cover the wood, and make your shelves stronger and they will last longer as well. 

 

“On a Budget” Furniture

Another joke about being “on a budget” is when people go to IKEA or another store and buy furniture for “cheap.”  These items are at least $60 at the cheapest and go up from there.  If you go to a Humanity Restore place, Goodwill, Salvation Army, or other Thrift Store, you can find similar items for this cost or cheaper.  Sometimes the items are nicked and need a little bit of TLC, but if you are really on a budget, the nicked furniture will do the same job and you can touch it up or add your own personality to it should it need it.  You would be also helping these items get a new home instead of being thrown in a landfill.  Craigslist is also a great way to get a good deal on cheaper furniture.  There are some people offering items for free!

“On a Budget” Shopping

Grocery Shopping

Grocery Shopping “on a budget” is also interesting to me as you have different price ranges for food.  You have the processed foods that are shoved in a box and require little time and ingredients to prepare at home.  These are not so healthy due to all the added unnatural ingredients in them so you cause digestion and hormonal issues later.  Then there are the regular foods like fruits, veggies, eggs, and other ingredients that are healthier, but have somehow been tainted by something or other (grains, pesticides, or other additives) and these are somewhat affordable, but require more time to prepare and can spoil more quickly than the processed foods.  And finally, there are the foods that are GMO free, chemical free, not processed, no dyes or added sweeteners, all natural foods which cost an exorbitant amount of money in which you can barely feed yourself for a week let alone your entire family.  And even then there have been some studies done to show that there are still some processing done with these foods in order to get them in the stores without spoiling. 

My suggestion here is to pick your battles.  Find out what foods or ingredients irritate your digestion or mood.  My kids can’t handle the red dyes, so we avoid foods with these in them.  I have PCOS, so I am unable to tolerate processed sugars, so I also avoid these foods.  I also “shop around.”  I prefer to shop in one store and save on the gas that it would take to go to other stores, but there are times and places that always have a cheaper price on certain items.  To avoid going to other stores for groceries, I will try to bulk buy – sugar, raw honey, diapers, etc, so I will not need to go to the “other” store as often as I would to the grocery store. 

I buy the sale fruits and veggies first and purchase frozen next if a weekly meal plan calls for an out of season fruit or veggie.  Eggs (regular as they are cheaper) blocks of cheese, and organic milk (without extra hormones) are how we purchase the next items.  Many cage free eggs still feed grains, and we go through so many eggs in a week that to go organic, cage-free, and grain-free, would make our budget go overboard.  I buy the blocks of cheese as the shredded kind have added wood pulp to them to keep it fresher.  We buy organic milk as the hormones added to the cows can cause issues with not only my hormones, but my kids as well.  We watch our grain intake as most of it is processed.  We go with rice and oats mainly and buy Ezekiel bread in bulk when it goes on sale.  Chips, nuts, juice, and other snacks are a rarity in our house unless they are pretty clean and need to be on sale.  When they are on sale, we stock up so they will last a while.  We try to make snacks from fresher ingredients as opposed to buying them premade (homemade cookies, avocado pudding, and plain yogurt with fresh fruit and raw honey added). 

Misc Shopping

Other shopping “on a budget” really would be slim to nothing if you are really on a budget.  How many times a year do you need a new shirt?  How many times do you need new nail polish or another small kitchen appliance?  How many dollar tree bins is enough?  How many crafts do your kids go through?  Many times I watch shopping hauls and I think to myself, “Yes, I need to go shopping for that!”  Only to find that the item really isn’t the best quality that I was looking for, it is smaller than I thought in the video, where would I actually store it after I bought it, and do I really have time to make/use it or would it clutter up my house?  I will also admit that I go to these stores often, but due to rationalizing I tend to purchase a few items that I do need or use often and pass over the extras that I really can live without.  It is hard as I do like to craft, but I have so very little time in which to do things. 

 

 

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October 30, 2018

Babies are messy!

Babies are messy!

Yes, I know what you are thinking.  DUH, of course babies are messy!  But I am not talking about the pooping and the spitting up.  I mean they have/need a LOT of STUFF which then causes a mess around the house!  There are swings for babies until they are about 25 lbs (about 6-9 mos), there are sit up toys for when babies can sit up on their own, and then there are the pull up toys for babies who are learning to stand. 

Burp cloths are used when the babies are 1-3 months and when food is introduced, the bibs come out.  Nipples have different flow speeds depending on the baby, and when solid foods are introduced, there are baby utensils, sippy cups, and special bowls and plates. 

We need these different items to survive (I believe they used live-in grandparents to do this long ago).  Swings lull the babies to sleep, while sit up toys keep them interested while building up their tummy muscles; and stand up toys, well, they help the babies stand up and then be brave to try walking.  Babies who use porcelain plates or bowls are likely to drop them on the floor (out of experimentation) and regular silverware is too big for their little mouths. 

So how do we manage organization with all the stuff that is only used temporarily and making the house messy?

PATIENCE , TIME, and SPACE

If you know you will only have one child, you can sell or donate the items when your baby is finished with them. There are many single mamas out there who would love to purchase the necessary baby items for a cheaper cost.  Churches can benefit from donations in their nurseries or toddler Sunday school rooms.  Make sure all items are clean and reusable before donating/selling. 

If you know you will have more babies, find a storage unit, garage, attic, or water proof basement to store the items.  Label bins and boxes with the item’s contents so you can find it later if you need them – again swing is used first and stand up toys later.   If you do not have the space or money to keep the items, you can sell the item that is no longer needed and when you have another baby, you can buy the items second hand instead of brand new. 

The key is to keep moving the stuff out when they are no longer in use. 

  • Separate clothes in bins according to age. 
  • Keep appliances, toys, and utensils in different containers. 
  • Stay on top of it or it will become overwhelming.  When they are done, pack it and take care of it (donate, store, or sell). 

 

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November 15, 2017

Rainbow Baby

rainbow
werner22brigitte / Pixabay

What is a rainbow baby? 

This is a child who is born after a miscarriage.  I have had many family members – aunts, grandmas, older people I know, who have had miscarriages, but you never expect it to happen to you.  I was devastated after my miscarriage but my story is not the worst one.  There are so many people who have the baby almost to full term and they lose the baby.  I had the baby for 1 day and it was so small that the hospital care couldn’t find it in the sonogram or in the removal of the ovary that ruptured.  So you would think I would have gotten over the loss quickly due to only knowing I was pregnant for a day and then not be pregnant the next. 

It is not easy for anyone to lose a baby.  From what I have read from other mothers who have miscarried, it is like a piece of them is missing.  I had no desire to do much of anything for 6 months.  I was blessed with 2 boys, have a wonderful husband, my mother-in-law came to live with us and she is such a help, so I was really blessed.  However, I have PCOS which makes it hard to conceive.  I also was getting older and only wanted one more baby.  Plus, with the miscarriage, I lost half of my reproductive organs so it made the chances even slimmer. 

Getting Healthy

In January 2017, I decided to get healthier (and try to have one more baby).  I found an exercise program that worked for me.  I ate the correct things I should and avoided the foods that my PCOS doesn’t tolerate.  Due to my change in habits, my period was not being regular and I asked the doctor for some Metformin.  It helped regulate me before (also shortly after 1 dose and I would be pregnant).  In March, I had to ask the doctor again for another prescription and I got sick to my stomach and had to stop taking it.  I was getting discouraged as my husband and I had been trying to have this baby for over 8 months now and still nothing.  Maybe I wasn’t meant to have another one.  I prayed desperately and wholeheartedly that God’s Will would be done.  Maybe we weren’t able to handle a 3rd child.  Maybe we couldn’t afford it.  I told God that I desperately wanted a 3rd child and that it be a girl, but I also told him that I understood if we weren’t supposed to have another baby.  God knows what we want and need more than we do.  So, I made up my mind that I would keep exercising and trying to be healthier for me.  I started decluttering and organizing my house as well (still in progress).  Finally in June, I was starting to feel cold all the time and was really tired.  I was getting excited that I was pregnant, but we have had so many times when I would be late, pee on a stick, and the next day, I would start my cycle, that I didn’t want to say too much.  I did let my husband in on the suspicion and at the end of June, we had a positive home pregnancy test!

We were so excited, but inside I wasn’t sure if I really was pregnant.  Even going to the doctors and getting a positive test there didn’t make it real enough.  It wasn’t until my first OBGYN appointment which was near the end of August that I saw the sonogram, and I finally believed we were expecting.  I was excited, but I was scared and afraid something was going to happen.  Only God knows why a miscarriage happens. 

As I am nearing my 3rd trimester, I am organizing baby clothes given to me by family members and I am still scared.  I am also excited and trying to wait to get other baby items out and put together.  Who wants to trip over a baby swing for 3 months until the baby arrives.  I trust God’s Will and I know He is with me, but I am still human.  Every week I feel better that the baby has more of a chance to be in our family.  God has a plan for this little one as much as He had a plan for the one we lost.  I thank God so much for the chance he has given us to have another baby.  When I look at the odds I have to conceive, I realize this is ALL GOD. 

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June 22, 2017

Pregnancy with PCOS

congerdesign / Pixabay

I was diagnosed with PCOS when I was 21, due to frequent ovarian cysts that would cause pain and then burst inside.  I didn’t think anything of it as the only symptoms I had, that I knew of, were a lack of a monthly cycle, and I didn’t mind.  It was more like 2-4 times a year that I had one. I didn’t realize that pregnancy with PCOS would be difficult as well as other symptoms that are not as noticeable or known to me at the time. 

This syndrome means I cannot digest sugar and it causes the cysts/eggs to not be strong enough to be fertilized.  However, God knew that I wanted a baby really badly.  I lost my cat of ten years to a blood clot and was depressed for 4 months after (long depression is a side effect of PCOS that I had been dealing with for years when I was younger).  Once I was feeling more like me again, I decided to “get off the couch” and loose some weight.  I found a book at the library called No Flours, No Sugars that made sense to me about how our bodies digest the sugars and flours so quickly and then we are hungry more often.  So I watched the flours and sugars and started to walk on the treadmill about 3-5 days a week.  Within 4 months, I was pregnant with our first son!  I did not take any medication except maybe vitamins at the time. 

After our first son was born, it took a while for me to want another baby simply that I was constantly doubting myself as a mother.  Always wondering if I was doing the right thing – giving my son the right nutrition, education, and discipline.  Our first son was about 13 months old when I was starting to have monthly issues all the time.  I went to the doctor and she told me of the PCOS and how it should be called insulin resistance (can’t digest sugar).  I was placed on Metformin (this is used on many diabetic patients to balance sugar) for one month to control the irregular cycle.  I also told her that I did want to have another baby and she said that I could try the same diet I did before our first son, or I can take medication to help me conceive.  I told her I wanted to try the natural way (I don’t like medication for many reasons) and within 4 months, healthier eating, and exercise, we were expecting our 2nd son. 

Once boy #2 was born, our family was complete.  All at once, he felt like the missing piece of the puzzle we needed for our family.  I also knew I did want another baby after him, trying for a girl.  I was also getting older as I did not get married until I was 31 and there are 2 1/2 years in between my two sons.  When my 2nd son was about 16 months, I started having the same issues after my 1st son.  I went on metformin for 1 month again, watched my diet, exercised, and it cleared up. 

On April 12th, I was working from home.  My husband was also at home looking for a new job.  I was on the phone, when I started to feel ill.  I didn’t know what, but mainly that I felt sick to my stomach.  As soon as I got off the phone, I got on the floor to lie down.  After a minute, I asked my husband to help me to the couch.  He came over, helped me up, and the next thing I remember is he is trying to wake me up and I was lying on my back on the floor where I started.  I had passed out and he had managed to catch me and place me back on the floor.  We tried the couch again and I made it.  My lunch did not.  I was in a lot of pain, but I wasn’t sure why!  I asked him to help me to the bathroom and I passed out again.  I do not pass out or loose my lunch easily.  So my husband wanted to take me to the ER, but I said no as we did not have insurance and I was starting to feel a little better (less pain) the more I laid down.  We made an appointment to see the doctor the next day and my husband found an “insurance plan” (which ended up not being real insurance and they dropped us without telling us 3 months later).  We went to the doctors and they did a pregnancy test and it was positive.  My husband was excited, but I told him, my fainting was not a good sign.  We then went to the hospital (per the doctor’s request) to get a sonogram and they were not seeing the baby (too small) and instead there was a lot of fluid.  I had an emergency laproscopy to take out one of my ovaries as it was toast.  They did not find the baby.  I was CRUSHED!  Not only was this supposed to be our last baby (it is suggested to only have 3 c-sections and then you are done), but I am getting older, I have PCOS which means I have to work hard on my diet to get pregnant, and now I have half of my reproductive organs left. 

After the miscarriage, I tried to keep myself as occupied as possible.  I went home the day after the surgery and took the day off from work, but I couldn’t stop crying.  My husband was home to help with the boys and I tried to hide the sadness as much as possible.  I talked to family and friends on the phone, but I didn’t want to.   I went to work the next day as I work on the computer from home.  It kept my mind busy and away from my loss.  I was depressed for the rest of the year.  I was mad at God.  How could he let this happen?  What can be gained from this?  Did He not understand that we didn’t have the money for the surgery?  That due to PCOS, I get depressed and withdrawn even more than I am?

It was about November to December of 2016 that I started researching about losing weight and starting to organize my house to feel less depressed.  I watched videos on Youtube and implemented some organizing tips and started to declutter my house with the time I could (with working 30 hours a week and taking care of 2 boys in the process). 

In February 2017, I started to exercise using Youtube videos and an exercise program I could do at home online.  You can exercise for 15-45 minutes a day, almost anywhere in your house, and with little to no extra equipment.  I started to lose inches and eventually some pounds.  I also started to have irregular periods, so I went to my Doctor for Metformin.  It worked, but the next month, I was having issues again which was different than the other 2 times I have taken the medicine.  By the 2nd month, I was feeling very sick over taking the medicine, so I stopped.  In May, we found out that we were expecting!  It truly is a God thing due to how hard it is for me to get pregnant.  I did do a LOT of praying to have each of my babies, but I prayed from the deepest part of my soul for this pregnancy. 

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November 4, 2016

Most Difficult Time of My Life

JolEnka / Pixabay

In April 12, 2016, I felt very ill.  My husband was home at the time and it was a blessing as I passed out twice and he was there to catch me before I hit the floor (my 2 boys were at the house with me).  We weren’t sure why I was fainting and having a lot of pain, but knowing we didn’t have health insurance made us wait for a day.  I did feel better the more I laid down and relaxed though.  My husband found some affordable insurance that ended up not really being insurance (or covered by the hospitals we went to).  On the 13th, we went to our PCP and I had a positive pregnancy test.  The doctor then asked us to go to the hospital for a sonogram to check on the status of the baby. 

At the hospital, there was a lot of fluid, but no sign of a baby.  I was told to wait in the ER waiting for my OBGYN to come.  I was not really informed of what was going on.  My 2 boys ages 4 and 2 were with me in the waiting room along with my husband.  When my OBGYN arrived, she informed us that I would need emergency surgery to remove the issue that they saw on the sonogram.  I cried so much to know I had a baby and lost it all in one day.  It is very difficult for me to get pregnant as it is. 

I needed to stay in the hospital overnight as the surgery was done at 5:00 pm.  I was release the next day without seeing the doctor or knowing what was done (yes, I could have called, bu that is not what you want to do after a miscarriage/surgery). I found out at my follow up appointment a week later.  They did not see any trace of a baby and the right side of my reproductive organs were ruptured and needed removed.  It was done by laparoscopy. 

The rest of the year was a depressing blur for me.  While I knew I was blessed to have my 2 boys and my husband, I couldn’t help but feel cheated.  Cheated out of my baby, cheated out of good health care, and cheated over life in general.  I didn’t want to go on.  I couldn’t get out of the fog.  I was mad at God, but I knew I shouldn’t be and that He was in control.  He has given me everything I have and more and I was still mad that He had taken this baby away from me.  I couldn’t see why He would let this happen and maybe I never will. 

I didn’t care about anything for the rest of the year.  We didn’t really do many fun activities.  My boys didn’t do Halloween because I didn’t want to/have the energy to do it (that is 6 months after the miscarriage). We were also having finance issues with the hospital as they didn’t work with our insurance as it was out of network and our insurance dropped us after 3 months of having it in April.  They also wouldn’t accept a payment plan unless it had interest tacked onto it.  My husband was out of work from February to August and we were living off my 30 hour a week income and savings we had. 

Luckily I did get out of my depression slowly but surely.  My family helped in more ways than they know, my essential oils would help at times, and then I had God.  He never gave up on me even when I gave up on Him.  I may never know why God had this happen to me, and I think about our unborn child all the time.  But I do have peace knowing that my baby is in Heaven right now and I will see him/her some day. 

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